10 highly effective study strategies to help you ace your tests and exams

If you want to achieve solid marks at school, you need to be strategic. Ditch your highlighter pens. Stop re-reading your books and notes. These are incredibly boring and passive ways to study. You need new study strategies.

Below are 10 highly effective study strategies that can be applied to any subject area.

1. Dual coding (using words and pictures)

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Dual coding is when you use both words and pictures to learn information. This gives you two ways to learn the information (via the words and the pictures).

Here are some different ways you can dual code when you study:

  • Create an infographic summarising the topic
  • Make a comic strip
  • Doodle on a blank sheet of paper as you read
  • Create a mind map (you can learn how to mind map here)
  • Look at the pictures in your textbooks and compare them to the text. Ask yourself the following question:
  • Is the picture conveying something that the text isn’t?

    Think this strategy is only for visual learners and artistic types? Think again. Dual coding has nothing to do with learning styles and being a visual learner, which some people argue is an educational myth. Dual coding is for everyone.

    2. Retrieval practice

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    Without looking at your books and notes, try to recall the information. Ask yourself, What did I study in human biology yesterday? Force yourself to get the information out of your brain.

    The simple act of bringing information to mind helps to reinforce it in your brain.

    You see, it takes effort to transfer information into your long-term memory. You don’t just hear information once in class and … BOOM! That information stays in your brain forever. Sorry, it doesn’t work like that.

    We are incredibly forgetful so we need to revisit the information to help cement it in our brains. Retrieval practice is the best way to do this.

    Let me make one thing clear: Retrieval practice is not the same thing as repetition.

    Repetition is easy (you just read the information over and over again). But retrieval (forcing yourself to bring specific information to mind) is hard. It strains your brain. But it’s a good kind of muscular strain.

    Just like it’s good to push your body at the gym, retrieval practice is the ultimate workout for your brain. It will help shift information into your long-term memory so you can access it when you need it.

    Here are some different ways you can practice retrieval:

  • Use flashcards: Try to answer the question before flipping over the card and reading the answer
  • Do practice tests and past exam papers
  • Try explaining a concept to a friend, your pet or the wall
  • Grab a diagram you need to learn the terms of, white out the terms and test yourself
  • Do a brain dump: Take a blank piece of paper and draw out everything you know about a particular topic
  • When you get to the point where you can’t recall anything else, that’s when it’s okay to take out your books and your notes. Check for any mistakes and gaps in your knowledge.

    As Dr Barbara Oakley says:

    “Getting clear on what you don’t understand is 80% of the battle.”

    It’s also important to know that you’re retrieving the correct information (otherwise, you’ll be reinforcing the wrong stuff!).

    If you’re consistent with your retrieval practice and incorporate it into your study sessions, you’ll see dramatic improvements over time.

    3. Spaced practice

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    Rather than doing 5 hours of study right before your exam (i.e. cramming), it’s much more effective to space out those 5 hours of study over 2 weeks. You learn more by spacing out your study.

    Now if you’re used to the cramming approach, spreading out your study over 2 weeks will probably feel strange at first. It will require a little planning. But the more you do this, the easier it gets. Before you know it, it will become a habit.

    When you sit down to do spaced practice, keep in mind you only need to do 15-20 minutes of study before taking a break (not hours and hours of study).

    The spaced practice approach usually means you’ll:

  • Be less stressed
  • Get more sleep
  • You’ll remember the information for a lot longer
  • Why? Because you won’t need to stay up late or pull an all-nighter to study for your test or exam.

    4. Pretend to be 4-years-old

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    Have you ever spent time with a 4-year-old child? If so, you’ll notice they ask Why? a lot. It’s this natural curiosity that makes 4-year-olds like sponges, soaking up information from absolutely everywhere.

    When you sit down to read your textbook, you want to ask Why? and How?

    Ask questions such as:

  • Why is this the case?
  • How does this idea relate to the idea that was mentioned earlier?
  • How does this work?
  • How do these ideas relate to my own life?
  • Asking questions will help you to stay engaged with the material.

    5. The power of examples

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    For some subjects (e.g. economics and psychology) you’ll need to learn lots of definitions of abstract ideas and concepts. If you’re like most students, you probably memorise these definitions by repeating them over and over again.

    But if you do this, two things are likely to happen:

    1) You’ll probably feel like a robot; and
    2) You won’t fully understand the concept, which will make it hard to remember.

    We can get ideas on how to learn definitions more effectively by looking at how professional actors learn their lines. Professional actors don’t learn their lines word for word. Instead they try to understand the character’s motivations and needs. Gaining a deeper understanding of these factors helps the actor to learn their lines more efficiently.

    Similarly, gaining a deeper understanding of an abstract concept will help you to learn and memorise it. So the question is, what is going to help you to deeply understand the abstract concept?

    Good examples. And lots of them.

    Whenever you have to memorise an abstract concept, collect as many different examples as possible.
    Get examples from your teachers, from your textbooks, etc. Plaster those examples over your wall and in key locations in your house (e.g. on the mirror and fridge).

    6. Mix things up: a) Ideas and b) Location

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    a) Ideas

    If you were going to a barbeque, you wouldn’t bring along veggie kebabs that only contained zucchini on the skewer. That would look cheap and nasty! One of the joys of kebabs is the variety of vegetables (e.g. tomato, onion, zucchini, capsicum). So you’d want to mix things up to make the kebabs appetising.

    The same thing applies with your studies. Don’t just study one concept for a long period of time. Mix things up. Study one idea and then jump to another concept in the same subject.

    For extra bonus points, you could pretend to be 4-years-old and ask yourself, How are these two ideas similar? and How are they different?

    b) Location

    Don’t always study in the same place. Sometimes study in a quiet café, a library or at the kitchen table. Research has found that changing your surrounding environment slows down forgetting and enriches learning.

    7. Take notes by hand

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    Want to remember more information? Ditch your laptop and work with pen and paper.

    A study called The pen is mightier than the keyboard found that students retained more information when they took notes by hand than when they took typed notes on their laptops.

    When you take notes on your laptop, you tend to write word for word what the teacher is saying. This is because you can type at the same speed the teacher is speaking at.

    But when you take notes by hand, you can’t write as fast as the teacher speaks. This forces you to put the information in your own words. This makes it easier for you to understand the information, which explains why you tend to remember more of it.

    8. Listen to (certain types of) music and/or create your own songs

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    Why is it that some people with dementia can’t remember the names of their friends and family, but they can remember the lyrics to hundreds of songs?

    It’s because music touches many different regions and lobes of the brain, which helps to cement the lyrics into our brains.

    This makes music an incredibly powerful learning tool. Certain types of music can motivate you to study and complete tasks that you typically perceive painful and would prefer to avoid doing.

    But more importantly, music can also help you to learn important concepts.

    Jump on YouTube and you’ll find a range of educational songs (check out the circulatory song Pump it up! and this quadratic formula song. You can even learn how to make a lasagna with music.

    Here are some ideas on how you can use music to help you study:

  • Watch and learn educational songs on YouTube
  • Create your own song using the content you need to learn
  • Take a pre-existing song and change the lyrics to help you learn important concepts
  • Have some fun and use humour wherever possible.

    9. Enter the diffuse mode

    Working on a difficult problem? Feeling stuck? Then take a break. Allow your brain to go into what Dr Barbara Oakley calls the ‘diffuse mode’ of thinking.

    In the diffuse mode, you relax your attention and allow your mind to wander. Let your subconscious mind do the work for you.

    You often hear stories of famous scholars coming up with groundbreaking theories while relaxing under an apple tree, going for a walk or having a shower. In these diffuse mode states, their brains are still working away on the problem, which ultimately leads to these ‘Eureka!’ moments.

    Some activities that will help you to enter the diffuse mode of thinking are:

  • Walking
  • Listening to music
  • Meditating
  • Napping
  • Drawing
  • Having a bath/shower
  • It may seem like you’re wasting time in the diffuse mode but you’re not. Your brain is still working quietly in the background on the problem, even though you’re not actively focusing on it.

    10. Get a good night’s sleep

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    Okay, so this isn’t exactly a specific study strategy but it’s critical to all of the strategies listed above. You see, when you sleep, your brain doesn’t just turn off. The opposite actually occurs. Your brain gets busy doing the following:

  • Clearing out toxic waste products that have accumulated while you’ve been awake
  • Rehearsing tougher information you’re trying to learn
  • Strengthening and consolidating important information
  • This is why going over important information before you take a 90-minute nap or go to sleep at night can be beneficial for learning. Your brain is more likely to rehearse this information and strengthen it while you sleep.

    Most importantly, it’s critical that you get a solid 8-10 hours of quality (undisturbed) sleep each night. If you’re sleep deprived, these effective study strategies cease to be effective.

    Getting sufficient sleep will ensure that you can concentrate and recall information more easily in your tests and exams. So if it’s approaching midnight and you’re thinking, Maybe I can squeeze in another hour of study … think again. Always prioritise sleep over study. Your brain will thank you for it the next day.

    Final thoughts

    To get maximum benefit from these ten study strategies, you need to be able to focus when you use them. Why? Because distraction is the enemy when it comes to learning information. If you’re trying to study complex information while checking your phone and watching a Netflix series, you’re wasting your time.

    So before you sit down to study, deal with any potential distractions. Do this …

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    Turn your phone off. Place it in another room far, far away. Close your bedroom door so you can’t be disturbed.

    The aim of the game is to form effective study habits. This isn’t hard to do and it’s never too late to give it a shot. It just takes practice, perseverance and being willing to try something new.

    Found this blog post useful? Want to learn more ways to enhance your study experience and boost your grades? Check out my latest book, Study Hacks: Your Survival Guide for High School.

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    Do you ever have bad dreams about taking exams?

    I had one of these dreams the other night.

    My anxious exam dreams usually go something like this . . .

    I’m back in high school and I’m not having a fun time.

    I’m freaking out because this exam is in just a few hours. So I’m scrambling. I’m cramming. I’m feeling desperate.

    But what I’m doing isn’t working. I’m looking at the page and nothing is going into my brain. I’m filled with this sense of impending doom. But just before I enter the exam room . . . I wake up . . .  Phew!

    It was just a dream.

    Why am I still having dreams about high school exams??

    I graduated from high school two decades ago!

    These dreams usually occur a few weeks before I need to deliver an important presentation. I’m not big on interpreting dreams, but here’s what I believe my subconscious is trying to tell me: “Lift your game. It’s time to start preparing!”

    Delivering a presentation is similar to taking an exam. Both activities require you to exert mental effort and be well prepared. They can also bring up a lot of anxiety.

    When I deliver a presentation, I have to recall a large amount of content from memory. I also need to keep an eye on the time because running into recess or lunch is not a smart move!

    I have to be organised and make sure I have all my props and equipment. I also need to stay calm because if I look stressed, this will make the audience feel stressed and concerned about my wellbeing.

    Just like you can’t wing a 3 hour long exam, I can’t afford to wing a presentation in front of a group of 200 students.

    I believe the strategies that help me to memorise and deliver presentations can also help you to ace your exams.

    Below I share simple things you can do to recall information under pressure and remain calm and grounded in strange and unusual environments.

    Some of these strategies may seem a bit over-the-top. But my job is to present ideas to others. If I bomb out, I usually won’t get a second chance to present at the school again. This is why I strive to do my best every time.

    Here are my top tips to boost your performance and confidence in exams:
    1. Pack your equipment the night before

    When you leave things to the very last minute and feel rushed packing up your gear, there’s a good chance you’ll forget something important.

    This is why I gather all my props the night before a presentation. Just before I go to bed, I lay out the clothes I’m going to present in. This means I don’t have to waste my brainpower on this small stuff in the morning.

    2. Prioritise sleep

    Just like you need to think quickly in an exam, I need to be able to think quickly on my feet when I present. A solid 8 hours of quality (uninterrupted) sleep helps me to do this.

    If I mess with my sleep, I mess with my ability to think.

    I’ve developed a strict bedtime routine – I go to bed at the same time and I wake up at the same time. My phone is on silent and charging in another room when I sleep.

    Now is the time to develop good sleep habits. Aim to get a minimum of 8 hours of quality sleep each night.

    3. Release nervous energy

    Consider doing some light exercise (nothing too strenuous) before an exam.

    Before I deliver a talk, I’ll run on my treadmill or ride my bike for 20-30 minutes. Not only does this make me feel powerful and strong, but it puts me in a positive frame of mind.

    It’s a fine line though. If you push yourself too hard (which I have done in the past), you’re going to feel exhausted. You need to make sure you don’t overdo it.

    If I do happen to push myself too hard (which doesn’t happen very often as I’ve learnt what works for me), I’ll take a quick 20 minute power nap to re-energise before a talk.

    4. Reframe any nerves as excitement

    If I’m feeling a bit nervous about delivering a presentation, I don’t make a big deal about it. I view a bit of nervous energy as a good thing.

    I think, “I must be excited”.

    I’ve also come to see a bit of nervous energy as better than being completely chilled. If I’m feeling super relaxed, I can’t muster enough energy to inject into the room. I’ve also noticed my thinking isn’t as sharp.

    If you’re feeling nervous about an exam, say to yourself, “I’m feeling excited!”. 

    5. Get grounded

    Before I deliver a presentation, I’ll sit and breathe deeply for 2 – 3 minutes. This helps me stay calm, grounded, and focused.

    I also put my phone on airplane mode so I’m not distracted by any random texts or calls. At this point, I need to stay in the zone and I can’t have anything throw me off my game.

    In the 30 minutes before the exam begins, you need to protect your mental state. Take some deep breaths, put your phone away, and shut out the world around you. Wearing a pair of headphones can also help.

    6. Eat something (but choose your food wisely)

    Your brain needs fuel to think and function well. Where does it get that fuel from? Food. So whatever you do, don’t skip breakfast or lunch before an exam.

    Before I present, I make sure I eat a healthy meal an hour beforehand. If the talk is at a strange time, I’ll make myself a healthy smoothie. This gives me the energy I need to deliver high energy presentations.

    I once cooked up and ate a big vegan schnitzel before I had to deliver an important presentation. I’d never consumed one of these processed schnitzels before, which must have been packed full of salt because I kept sipping on water before the talk.

    I remember that I was freaking out because of the unexpected impact of this salty vegan schnitzel. I was thinking, “How am I going to do this? I’m going to need to go to the toilet! Why did you think it was a good idea to eat a vegan schnitzel right before a talk?!”

    Luckily, I managed to deliver the talk without any problems. But it was a close call.

    I learnt an important lesson that night . . .

    Don’t experiment with any new or strange foods before giving a talk. You’re asking for trouble.

    Work out what foods make your brain feel good and then stick to those foods before each exam.

    7. Take care of your biology

    If you feel hungry, sleep deprived, or you have a full bladder, these things are going to create some discomfort. It will be hard to concentrate and recall information in the exam.

    This is why I always make sure I take care of the basics (e.g., having a healthy breakfast or snack) before I deliver a presentation.

    8. Arrive early

    Give yourself plenty of time to get to the exam room. There’s nothing worse than feeling rushed, stressed or getting lost.

    This is why I like to set up for a job at least 30 minutes before I need to present. This gives me plenty of time to avoid any technical problems and get grounded.

    9. Use effective learning strategies

    Since I don’t rely on any notes or palm cards when I present, I need to know my content back to front and inside out.

    How do I learn the content?

    I use a combination of three highly effective study strategies:

    1) Dual coding (using words and pictures to help you learn);
    2) Active recall (bringing information to mind); and
    3) Spaced practice (spacing out your study, not cramming).

    These three strategies are much more effective than rereading and highlighting my notes. I recommend you use these study strategies to prepare for your exams.

    10. Use gestures to help you remember information

    Research shows physical movement, including the use of gestures, helps improve understanding and boosts memory.

    Whether you’re trying to learn a new concept for an exam or memorise a presentation, don’t be afraid to use your hands and body. Think about what you’re saying. Can you apply a gesture or move your body to help you memorise and improve your understanding of a concept?

    You can read more about the power of gestures and movement when it comes to learning here.

    11. Conserve your brainpower

    Before each exam, keep away from people and places that drain your energy and stress you out. Avoid energy vampires (i.e. people who drain your mental energy and make you feel a bit out of whack) as much as possible. Don’t waste your brainpower on these toxic people. You need all your brainpower for your exams.

    12. Focus on the things you can control


    Positive self talk

    Sometimes things will go wrong that are completely out of your control. And you have to just roll with it and do the best job you can under the circumstances.

    For example, a few years ago, I did a job where nothing seemed to go to plan. The school receptionist was rude and unhelpful. The venue for the talk wasn’t booked. The students didn’t have chairs to sit on. To make matters worse, it was a boiling hot day and the air-conditioner wasn’t working.

    What was I supposed to do?

    Having a meltdown wasn’t going to help.

    In times like these, you need to remain calm and focus on the things you can do to make things better going forward.

    13. Pace yourself

    If you have two exams on the same day, you need to think about how you’ll manage your energy levels. You need to conserve your energy.

    For instance, if I need to deliver two or three different talks in a day, I manage my energy levels by taking deep breaths, frequent sips of water, and power naps where possible.

    To sum up

    Preparing to sit an exam is like preparing to go on stage for a performance. If you can use some of the strategies listed above, you can stay calm, energised, and grounded, which will make a big difference when it comes to recalling information in the exam.

    Which strategy will you test out to stay calm and enhance your performance in your next exam?

    My first car was a dilapidated Suzuki Swift.  

    But just to be clear – this car wasn’t in bad shape when I first got it. I turned this car into a jalopy through neglect and ignoring basic warning signs.

    Whenever I gave my friends a lift in this car, I remember that they always looked visibly uncomfortable. They’d say with a nervous laugh:

    “Jane, what’s that strange rattling sound?”

    “Why is there a red warning light on your dashboard?”

    I wasn’t fussed about the red light or the strange rattling sound.

    Somehow, I’d missed the adulting lesson on basic car maintenance.

    For many years, I never bothered to get my car serviced. I drove it to the point where it rattled and shook violently, the engine would cut out while driving, and the brakes squealed at a painfully high pitch.

    It got to the point where I could no longer ignore these problems, but by then, it was too late. My car was beyond repair and could only be salvaged for scrap metal.

    I’m embarrassed to share this, as that’s no way to treat a car that gets you from A to B and uses the Earth’s finite resources. But stay with me because there’s an important point I want to make, and it’s this. . .

    The way that I treated my first car is symbolic of how many people treat their bodies, especially when they’re young.

    When I was younger, I engaged in several unhealthy lifestyle practices. Whilst I never smoked, took drugs, or consumed alcohol, I ate huge amounts of processed junk food (I didn’t know how to cook).

    I also frequently sacrificed sleep to pull all-nighters to complete my assignments (I struggled with procrastination).

    My body seemed resilient. It appeared capable of handling the shocks. But over time, I started feeling tired and rundown. Still, I kept pushing myself like my old car. The only time I could rest was when I got sick.

    These days, everything’s quite different.

    I am physically unable to thrash my body around like an old jalopy.

    Something as simple as consuming too much salt or sugar can send my brain spiralling out of control.

    I was reminded of this a couple of weeks ago when I visited a friend in hospital. Because I was spending a lot of time at the hospital, my usual routines of grocery shopping and cooking from scratch were disrupted.

    But then to make matters worse, I was given $80 worth of vouchers to spend at the hospital cafeteria. I thought, “How bad can hospital cafeteria food be?”.

    It turns out really bad.

    Cheese kranskys (sausages), heaps of salty hot chips, deep-fried chicken, and soft drinks were the main options at this hospital cafeteria.

    Unhealthy food seemed completely normalised in this hospital environment. My jaw dropped when I saw a patient order not just one but five cheese kransky sausages!

    In this hospital setting, I also started to eat poorly. It was on my third day of eating hot chips from the hospital cafeteria when I noticed that these chips weren’t doing me any favours. I was feeling off my game.

    So I decided enough was enough. I gave the remaining hospital food vouchers to a homeless man who was hanging around the cafeteria, desperate for a feed. It was back to home cooked meals for me!

    Who would have thought some hot chips could wreak so much havoc with my brain and body?

    This greasy processed hospital food had a ripple effect on the rest of my life. I slept badly, which impacted my ability to run the next morning (my joints hurt). I felt resistance to using my treadmill desk because everything felt much harder than usual. Since I was moving less, I was more distracted.

    I know all this might sound a bit dramatic, especially to those of us who enjoy a few hot chips (e.g., my husband). Given my friend was in a hospital bed and couldn’t walk, I am fully aware of how lucky I am to be able to run in the first place (even with sore joints).

    The point I’m trying to make is this . . .

    I know what it feels like to feel really good, and I value that feeling. When I feel good, everything feels easier.

    I also know that small decisions, like eating too many hot chips or staying up late, can add up and take their toll on your mind and body. These tiny decisions can have a big impact on the way you feel.

    When I was younger, I could eat whatever I wanted and still feel pretty good. Sometimes I’d feel a bit off, but not in a noticeable way.

    As Dr Randy J Paterson states in his book How to Be Miserable in Your Twenties:

    “In your twenties, some people can do practically anything to their bodies, experience no immediate physical consequences, and feel emotionally more or less well. Random sleep cycle, sedentary lifestyle, lousy diet, 90 percent of the day staring at screen, binge-drinking, isolation, the works. The body doesn’t completely fall apart, and the mind, while not thrilled, hangs on.

    Later on, the effect is more immediate. Live exactly the same way at thirty-five, at forty-five, and things don’t go so well. Take a middle-aged car and drive it aggressively down jolting roads, loaded to the max, old oil clogging the engine, and it’s not going to last long. The baseline mood at forty-with no maintenance, no exercise, no dietary adjustment, no stability, and no social life- is misery. ”

    Like a car, the human body requires regular basic maintenance. I see this basic maintenance as a collection of small behaviours that leave me feeling calm, grounded, and focused.

    Here are a few things I need to do to keep myself running smoothly:

    • Engage in high-intensity exercise every morning
    • Limit my intake of salt and refined sugar
    • Be in bed by 9.30pm each night
    • Stay off social media and limit my time looking at screens
    • Give myself the right fuel (i.e., eat lots of plants and wholefoods and drink plenty of water)
    • Minimise my consumption of processed foods
    • Connect with friends and family
    • Avoid sitting for long periods of time
    • Go outside and spend time in nature
    • Give myself fun rest breaks
    • Try to do one thing at a time (multitasking scrambles my brain)

     

    Every now and then, I’ll abandon these behaviours. I’ll have a day where I eat and do whatever I like. I’ll order takeaway, sit on the couch and binge-watch a series until late at night. I usually pay for it the next day, but it also gives me a better appreciation of these healthy practices and what they do for my body and mind.

    It’s all about tuning in and noticing how certain things make you feel. For example, when I was in my mid-20s, I noticed every time I ate deep-fried chicken, I experienced sharp stomach pains.

    That was like the red warning light on my car dashboard going off in my body. But instead of ignoring it, I paid close attention. Eventually, I decided it wasn’t worth the pain. So I stopped buying greasy deep-fried chicken and eventually went plant-based, which immediately improved my mental and physical health.

    Final thoughts

    There’s no doubt that modern life can be hectic and stressful. When you’re rushing from one thing to another, it’s easy to overlook the basics and ignore the warning signs.

    I’m not proud of how I treated my first car, but I learnt from the experience. Now I make sure I get my car serviced regularly. This saves me time, money, and stress in the long run.

    Similarly, we need to pay attention to the way in which we look after ourselves. By dedicating time, energy, and attention to the small things that make us feel better, our experience of the present moment becomes richer. As longevity researcher Dan Buettner says, “You can add years to your life and life to your years”.

     

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    Tiny habits for healthy living

    I used to spend a lot of time on the road driving from school to school.

    While I always kept an eye on the amount of petrol in the tank, I also needed to pay close attention to my own personal energy levels.

    It was important to avoid pushing myself past empty and depleting my energy reserves because if I did, I would end up feeling emotionally wrecked.

    I clearly remember one day when I pushed myself too hard. Looking back, it seems comical now. But I wasn’t laughing at the time.

    It was my 24th birthday. I had woken up that morning with great intentions, thinking “It’s my birthday! Let’s make it a great day!”

    I was trying too hard to make it a “great day”. I was forcing it, and perhaps that’s partly why everything went pear-shaped.  Here’s what happened . . .

    I had a school presentation later that day, so I spent the morning preparing for it before driving over an hour to deliver the presentation.

    The time slot for the talk wasn’t ideal—my talk was scheduled for the last period on a Friday afternoon—but I was thinking, “Hey! It’s my birthday. Let’s make it a great day!”

    What can I say?

    The session didn’t go well.

    There were IT issues and the students’ minds were elsewhere. But you couldn’t blame the students. They were tired and I was the only thing standing between them and the weekend.

    When I wrapped up the session, I felt tired and hungry.

    But I foolishly ignored my body’s needs. On an empty stomach, I began the long drive home. I was desperate to get back and be in my own space.

    Within 10 minutes, I found myself stuck in peak-hour traffic. But I wasn’t just stuck in traffic; I was also stuck in an anxiety loop.

    Psychologist Risa Williams explains an anxiety loop as “a negative thought cycle that makes you feel stuck in a rut”. You can’t rationalise your way out of an anxiety loop. Logic doesn’t cut it.

    I kept thinking about how the talk could have gone better, why my birthday had been such a flop . . . these annoying tunes kept playing over and over in my mind and they kept getting louder and louder.

    I was about halfway home when something unexpected happened: I began sobbing uncontrollably behind the wheel of my car. I just felt incredibly sad.

    I realised it was dangerous to drive while crying, so I pulled over and called my mum.

    My mum and I would chat on the phone most days, but I remember this conversation especially well because my mum didn’t pull any punches.

    Here’s how the conversation went:

    Mum: What’s wrong Jane? Why are you upset?

    Me: It’s my birthday and I wanted to have a great day but I just feel so awful. Everything has gone wrong today. The day has been a total flop.

    Mum: Jane, have you had anything to eat?

    Me: No.

    Mum: You’re hungry! I know what you’re like when you’re hungry. You need to find a place to eat.

    Me: But there’s nothing healthy to eat around here . . . there are no healthy options.

    Mum: I don’t care. Order something. Anything. You need to eat. Go do that right now!

    I found a café that was still open (it was 3:30pm) and ordered a burger from the menu.

    When the burger came out 10 minutes later, I felt emotionally wrecked.

    But after eating that big, juicy burger, I felt instantly better.

    Burger Transformation

    A magical transformation had occurred, all thanks to a $15 burger.

    The world now felt like a new and different place. I had strength again. With tear-free eyes, a calm mind, and more energy in my system, I got in my car and drove myself home safely.

    That experience taught me an important lesson. I learnt I had to stop pushing myself past the point of empty (something I’d done far too often for too many years).

    I had to start listening to my body and the signals it was sending me.

    Feeling hungry? Have a healthy snack.

    Tired? Take a quick nap.

    Thirsty? Have a few sips of water.

    Sitting for too long and in pain? Get up and move.

    Eyes and brain hurting from staring at a screen for too long? Take a break and look out the window.

    It also taught me how engaging in small behaviours (tiny habits) can significantly impact how you think and feel.

    Here are some of my favourite tiny habits for healthy, calm, and grounded living :
    1. After I wake up, I will put on my gym clothes.
    2. After I put on my gym clothes, I will turn on my treadmill.
    3. After I step on my treadmill, I will move my body for a minimum of 20 minutes.
    4. After I shower, I will warm up my breakfast (overnight oats and berries).
    5. After I finish eating breakfast, I will sit down and do 5 minutes of meditation.
    6. After I finish meditating, I will write down three things I feel grateful for.
    7. When I feel mentally fatigued, I will step away from my work and go outside.
    8. After sitting for 25 minutes, I will walk on my treadmill for 5 minutes.
    9. When I find myself feeling sleepy, I will set a timer for 15 minutes and take a nap.
    10. When I find myself feeling flat, I will hit play on an upbeat song.
    11. After I complete a task, I will have a sip of water.
    12. When I notice I am feeling hungry, I will grab a piece of fruit.
    13. When I get my keys to leave the house, I will put on a n95 mask.
    14. When I see it’s past 8pm, I will plug my phone in to charge in another room and say out loud, “No more screens”.
    15. When I put my head on my pillow, I will pick up my notebook and write down three wins for the day.

     

    All of these habits are designed to boost and conserve my energy. That’s the great thing about habits: they conserve your energy by automating your behaviour and combating decision fatigue. As Kevin Kelly states in his book Excellent Advice for Living:

    “The purpose of a habit is to remove that action from self-negotiation. You no longer expend energy deciding whether to do it. You just do it.”

    Boost your energy

    These 15 tiny habits are so deeply ingrained that I do all of them most days. I don’t waste time and energy thinking, “Should I go on the treadmill or stay in bed and read a book?” or “Do I do my gratitude practice or eat breakfast?” I have established a routine of healthy behaviours that work for me.

    These tiny habits don’t take long to do, and best of all, they stop me from running out of energy and crashing. I also haven’t been sick in over three years (mainly due to Habit #13: Wearing a n95 mask).

    You might be wondering why I’m still wearing a mask when covid restrictions have eased. There are a few reasons: I know several people with long covid (and they are suffering). Their quality of life is not what it once was.

    I’ve also read a lot of the research on covid. Research shows covid can cause significant changes in brain structure and function.

    This study found that people who had a mild covid infection showed cognitive decline equivalent to a three-point loss in IQ and reinfection resulted in an additional two-point loss in IQ.

    Covid and the brain study

    Other studies have found covid can disrupt the blood brain barrier and cause inflammation of the brain. Since I rely on my brain to do everything, wearing a n95 mask (not a cloth or surgical mask) is a simple and effective habit I’m happy to keep up to protect my brain and body.

    At the end of the day, cultivating healthy habits is about noticing the little (and big) things that make a difference and then experimenting with those things.

    For example, Habit #3 (Moving on a treadmill first thing every morning) came about when I noticed the dramatic difference in how I felt on the days I ran on the treadmill compared to the days I didn’t (I felt mildly depressed on the days when I didn’t go for a run).

    Habit #4 emerged after I noticed that eating a particular breakfast (overnight oats with berries) made me feel amazingly good compared to having a smoothie or a bowl of processed cereal for breakfast (which would spike my blood sugar levels).

    Here’s how I see things . . .

    Your health influences everything in life—and I mean absolutely everything. It influences how you interact with the people in your life, how well you learn and focus, your energy levels, and how you do your work.

    As Robin Sharma explains in his book The Wealth Money Can’t Buy, health is a form of wealth.

    The wealth money can't buy

    Sharma writes:

    “If you don’t feel good physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, all the money, possessions and fame in the world mean nothing. Lose your wellness (which I pray you never will) and I promise you that you’ll spend the rest of your days trying to get it back.”

    One way you can build your wealth is by cultivating tiny healthy habits.

    Final Thoughts

    As I think back to my younger self, 24 years old and ignoring the warning signs my body was sending me, I can’t help but feel a bit embarrassed. But as Kevin Kelly says, “If you are not embarrassed by your past self, you have probably not grown up”.

    I’ve grown up a lot. I’ve come to realise developing awareness and taking time out to step back and reflect are critical to living a healthy, grounded life. When you notice what makes you feel good and not so good, you can make tiny tweaks to improve your life.

    If you aim to do more of the things that leave you feeling good and less of the things that leave you feeling depleted and fatigued, you can’t really go wrong.

    In the words of Psychologist Dr Faith Harper, “Keeping our brains healthy and holding centre is a radical act of self-care”.

    On that note, take a moment to check in with your body. What does it need right now? Could you do something small to treat your body and mind with a little more care? Step away from the screen and do it now.